Recently, my own neighborhood launched a Kindness Challenge for the community. On the 20th of each month, those who signed up would get an email with ideas for different Acts of Kindness. The challenge goal was to have 200 families complete at least 20 throughout the year.
The types of acts suggested were mostly ‘pay it forward’ small acts. When doing these small acts, we create a ripple effect of kindness that grows outward to others. I am so fortunate to live in a community that truly cares about others in this way and loved hearing the stories about what people were doing to practice these small karmic acts of kindness!
I have always loved practicing ‘paying it forward’; whether it was paying for someone’s coffee or leaving a penny on heads for the next person to pick up to have a great day (something my daughters and I regularly do!), as it always gave me a charge to know that one small gesture can make someone’s day.
Years ago when my kids were younger, I read a book by an author I absolutely love- The Encyclopedia of an Ordinary Life by Amy Krouse Rosenthal. You may have read some of her books, as she has written several, including some well-known children’s books. You also may remember reading about her recently, as she passed away last year after battling ovarian cancer. She left behind a legacy of kindness, laughter, joy, and ‘paying it forward’. She truly was a remarkable human being, and I highly recommend any and all of her books.
In one of the chapters, Amy talks of leaving behind an envelope containing a note (listed below), some loose change, and a stamped postcard addressed to her PO box for a random stranger to discover.
She claims to not necessarily have done it for purely altruistic reasons, but to inject some morsel of suspense into her week. This is what the note said:
This money was left here intentionally and is specifically for your use. I know it’s not much- perhaps just enough to treat yourself to a cookie, a lottery ticket, donation to the homeless, a new pair of socks… In any case, I hope it changes your day for the better. All I ask in return is that you let me know how you spend it. You don’t have to sign your name, and a prepaid postcard is included. Enjoy!!
After reading this, I decided to do this with my 2 daughters and a few of my friends, as well. We opened up a PO box and went to work- leaving postcards with random change ($1.58, $2.60, etc) around town. We got many of them back with great stories, one of them was from someone who was short money for a train ticket and they were now able to purchase one. Another was my daughter leaving an envelope in town, and her friend being the one who found it and bought herself a hot dog! We had quite a laugh at this act of serendipity.
After Amy died, on March 13, 2017, I decided to resurrect Amy’s ‘Pay-it-Forward-Postcard-Note’ here in our own hometown of Scottsdale. What a rush I would feel when leaving behind a note, either on the LOVE statue in the Civic Center Mall, or Sky Harbor airport, or between the pages of a magazine! I knew that in some way, I made someone smile and perhaps helped his or her day.
I invite my readers to either copy this or embark on their own ‘Pay It Forward’ act and feel what it’s like to know that you have positively impacted someone else and that this may lead to that glorious ripple effect.
*Here are a few sites to check out related to this wonderful practice of kindness and paying it forward: