When Insomnia Strikes: 10 Tips To Fall & Stay Asleep with Ease


Sleep: What we need each night to restore and rejuvenate after a busy day, but what so many individuals struggle with each night. In nearly 20 years of my work with clients, sleep has surfaced as a concern and a frustration to so many. In fact, nearly 9 million Americans rely on sleep medications just to fall asleep each night.

Insomnia has a direct negative impact on health, quality of life, safety, and job performance. As someone who struggled with – and overcame – insomnia, I am passionate about sharing my favorite 10 insomnia-busting techniques with others.

1. Belly Breathing

Deep belly breathing is the first step in preparing for relaxation and sleep.

The way this is done: Bring your awareness to your belly and place your hands on your belly to feel the breath as it enters this area of the body. Imagine that you are slowly inflating a balloon into your belly. Just as slowly as you inhaled, exhale as if you made a tiny pinhole in the balloon, allowing the air to gradually seep out.

Repeat several times, focusing on the inhalations and exhalations remaining consistently smooth, deep and even. When practiced properly, this technique relaxes the muscles of the body, balances the heart rate, provides a thorough exchange of oxygen and carbon dioxide, calms the nervous system and relaxes the mind.

2. 2:1 Breathing Pattern

Since the exhalation is the part of the breath that releases carbon dioxide and relaxes us, exhaling twice as long as you inhale can promote a more deeply relaxed state. This can also be helpful during moments of extreme stress or pain.

The way this is done: While you are doing deep, even belly breathing, try to get a count for how long you comfortably take an inhalation and an exhalation. For example, you may count 4 seconds when you inhale and 4 seconds when you exhale. Now, instead of exhaling the same duration as your inhalation, exhale TWICE as long. So if your comfortable inhalation is 4 seconds, you will then exhale twice as long- or 8 seconds.

3. 8:16:32 Breathing Pattern

Another helpful way to fall asleep is actually an ancient eastern practice coming from yogic breathing techniques. It can be done while practicing deep, even belly breathing, or to maximize its potential, you can incorporate the 2:1 breathing above into this method.

The way this is done: While lying on your back, take 8 deep, belly breaths. Then turn onto your right side and double the amount- taking 16 deep, belly breaths. Then, turn onto your left side and take 32 deep belly breaths. Theoretically, you will fall asleep before you reach 32!

4. A Dark, Quiet, Cool Room

Make sure that your room is as dark, quiet, and cool. This means no falling asleep to the TV on in the background. Also, if your alarm clock has a bright light, consider removing it or covering it with something to eliminate the bright glare.Hint:try and keep yourself from checking it, too!  If you have light coming through your windows, consider purchasing some blackout curtains or at the very least use an eye mask to block out the light. Make sure the temperature in your room isn’t too warm; 60-67 degrees is the optimal temperature for sleep.

5. Lavender Lullabies

The scent of lavender is one of the most calming and soothing scents to inhale. Rubbing the high quality therapeutic grade essential oil of lavender on the bottoms of your feet and the back of your neck is a great way to induce relaxation and sleep. Lavender oil is very gentle on the skin and rarely, if ever, causes irritations.

6. Allow your Mind to be Unproductive For Once

If a ‘to-do list’ comes into your mind as you lay down to fall asleep, create a mantra-like saying to stop yourself from getting drawn in. For example ‘Sleep now; plan tomorrow.’ Assuming your goal is 8 hours of sleep, that will leave you with 16 hours for your mind to productive and busy. Give your mind a little down time and your productivity the next day will actually increase.

7. Eliminating Electronics

In addition to the television, avoid electronics before going to sleep. Books and magazines are far more sleep inducing then technology, which inhibits falling asleep. Seek calming, wind-down activities instead of those that cause stimulation. Turn off your phone, your computer, and your iPad. It is also beneficial to turn off the Wi-Fi in your house during bedtime.

8. Almond Butter